So much time has past.....

Wow, well it has been awhile and man how things have changed.  Well not really changed, everything is the same.  I have recently learned that my cousin and his wife are expecting a little one, that is great news.  My Uncle Ray is out of the Hospital and is home trying to calm himself of the drug relapse he is having from all the drugs the hospital gave him.  Man I really dislike hospitals, but thats another post.  Actually just watch Sicko and you may feel the same.  

I posted awhile back about kids and when is a good time for some tough love and kick them out, well I stumbled across this article today and man I just love it  How to Get Your Adult Children to Move Out, I sent it to my Mom who has my two brothers still living at home with her.  One is 23 and the other is about to be 22.  When I turned 18 I was like see ya, but I did come back when I saw how hard it was and needed to finish up school and focus on trying to get into my career.  Once school was over I was like See ya.  I just dont get it, I wanted to be on my own, why not them.  It just frustrates me that She and My Step Dad really have no time for themselves, I feel that my brothers are old enough to take on this world with out moms hand.  I want them ( mom and step dad ) to be able to go on more vacations, and save for retirement someday.  I dont want my mom working when she is 80 years old.  More to come later I am getting frustrated now...........